“Love comes to those who wait”.
But while this saying still holds true, the waiting part doesn’t have to mean pining, freaking out panicking and desperately seeking for The Right One.
Quite frankly, we can’t really blame ourselves for our impatience from time to time because we often hear people say we’ll meet the The Right One when the right time comes but we can’t help thinking if that so-called ‘right time’ will ever come.
Nonetheless, let’s not get hung up on being alone that we get to let this impatience take over us to make the decisions of the heart that would lead us to rush into the arms of just anyone.
As we take into account that time is of the essence, we could no longer afford spending more time or worse, settling for The Right ‘Now’ instead of forbearingly waiting for the The Right One.
Given this distressing matter, the question arises…
If chasing The Right One is considered indiscretion and the impatience of waiting for The Right One to come into our lives grows restless, what more can we do?
If you’re thinking that there’s got to be more than just that, then you are right.
Because we don’t chase The Right One, WE ATTRACT.
Ever heard of the Law of Attraction?
It’s the attractive, magnetic power of the Universe that draws similar energies together and attracts thoughts, ideas, people, situations and circumstances. Given this definition, The Right One is no exception.
In other words, the Law of Attraction is a law of the universe that confirms what you think, you attract.
I know what you are trying to think right now. (The Right One, The Right One, The Right One).
Did you attract it?
I know you didn’t. Not just yet.
While you might be being skeptical about it now, we don’t have to look hard enough to see evidences of happy married couples around us, even those that are in a relationship. They are the living proof that the Law of Attraction really do exist and The Right One along with it.
Just as this ‘supernatural phenomenon’ happened to them, it can also happen to you. So buckle up and read on as I share with you the 5 surprisingly simple ways on how to really attract The Right One into your life.
Fall in love with yourself first
Most of us turn overlook and turn a blind eye on this that we dive straight into a relationship giving every bit of love that we could give without saving up some for ourselves thinking that finding The Right One right away will somehow make us “whole”, fill the emptiness that we feel inside, and make as ultimately happy. As a result, we often end up taken for granted, abused and misdirects us into loosing our own self-respect.
Fortunately, one’s happiness doesn’t depend on someone else and your other half can only do so much. You are your own happiness and only you can be in your corner even if nobody else is.
That is why it is very important to keep in mind and in your heart, that before you could give love to someone, you should love yourself first. Embrace your strengths and weaknesses and be gentle with your mistakes and failures.
For it’s when we love ourselves evidently enough that we could get to be loved by others, not the other way around. Like attracts like. Remember the Law of Attraction?
Forgive with who has hurt you and make peace with your past
Our past played an important role to us to become who we are today. We all went through the good and bad times from the past and we get to learn from it.
We should be mindful that we are living in the present now and surely, our happy moments are to be treasured and our unfortunate experiences and regrets that left us wounded and hurt must be dealt with and has to go.
Know that we can’t change what has already happened from the past. But what we can do is to forgive the people who has caused us pain and make peace with our past.
There is no use carrying grudges against people who had once hurt us in the past. It’ll only weigh you down from the joy that you’ll be missing living in the present and the bright future that awaits you.
Moreover, to let go of you past would mean making space in your present that is very important in creating new things and form new relationship, making way and drawing The Right One into your life.
Be optimistic and maintain a positive mindset
Do your best to always find the positive attitude in every situation, even to those unfortunate ones. It is one of the important traits of people who always succeeds in life and in love.
Develop your mind to think positive, feel positive and act positive in order for you to naturally attain positive results in whatever endeavors you are into. In this case, attracting the The Right One.
Though it is normal to feel such negativity that seems to be a result of fear, disappointments and past failures, but life is just too short to values such negative feelings over the best that’s coming to you when you’re being positive. Don’t you think?
Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity, so be the master of your mind. You too are destined to be successful in life and in love as you take your life in to the brighter side.
That is why you should develop a positive outlook in life so you could shine in the light and glow in the dark.
Find your passion and pursue the things that you love to do
While The Right One hadn’t yet been drawn into you, it’s best to keep you occupied with the things you are passionate about.
If you haven’t found it yet then it’s the best time to discovery and pursue it.
You can start by visualizing or reminiscing what you love to do when you’re still a kid and never had the chance to take part in, or you can start something new, something interesting.
This is your best chance to develop a skill, to engage your dream hobbies or rekindle your long lost interests because it’s always never too late to do something that you love to do.
And who knows, maybe and just maybe, you might meet and attract The Right One in the course of pursuing the things you love and it may be difficult for you to tell the difference. Pun not intended.
Embrace the new and positive you
When all is said and done, all that’s left to do is to get ready for others to be attracted to the new, positive, loving and the glowing you.
By falling in love with yourself, letting go of your tragic past, developing a positive mindset and finding your passion, you’ll unconsciously create the sun inside you and you’ll glow from inside out that will surely reach and felt by the people around you.
As a matter of fact, what this new perspective really gives out is to evoke the power to turn yourself into something better than you were before to inspire people and help you draw them into you like a magnet and increase the chance that will eventually help the The Right One to find a way to come into your life. Besides, this is what really is all about, right? Chuckles.
Have a positive and attractive day!
Do you still have more ways to attract The Right One in to our lives? Do you more insights about this article?
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